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Frogs

Eat That FrogListening to books in the car is one of the best things I’ve done lately to make my less than desirable, or “frog,” commute more bearable. Most recently, I’ve been listening to Eat That Frog!: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time by Brian Tracy. I have to say, what a great book! His voice is pleasant to listen to, and he has an appealing message.

#1 Tip to Get More Done: Finish your most important task first and completely, and do it well. In other words, eat the biggest, ugliest frog first.

Eat that Frog: Tackle difficult projects first.
My most difficult project is too big to eat with just one bite, so I’ve been practicing this principle by doing small things every day to wack it down to size. I’m surprised by what I’m accomplishing. It’s working. The ugliest frog is looking prettier every day! I’m also really amazed at my increased energy level and declining stress levels by taking small actions every day on this ugly frog of a project.

I also love Eat That Frog! because of the title. A few years ago, I did my first experiment with the Law of Attraction. I decided to attract more frogs into my life. You know, it could have been parachutes, pinatas, or parakeetes, but I chose frogs just as an easy experiment to show myself that the Law worked. I set an intention and waited for the Universe to do its work. Soon I started to see frogs everywhere…on t-shirts, on commercials, and once while shopping with my Mom in a department store, I saw an entire row of frog socks! Now, whenever I see a frog, I am reminded that Divine order is at work in my life.

Since reading Tracy’s book, I am also reminded that my “frogs” (difficult projects) may be ugly, but the toughest challenges are also part of Divine order. Frogs can be opportunities to learn and grow. They teach us what we need to learn on our path. Of course, it’s more difficult to remember this fact when in the midst of things.

It’s also interesting to me that none of my most difficult projects are found at work. Instead, they are all projects or goals that I’ve set for myself personally. (More evidence that I’m harder on myself than others….but, that’s a topic for another post!)

Now, I’m not exactly wishing for more ugly frogs, and I’m still working on not letting my frog of a drive get to me, but I’m getting more done while less stressed about all I still want to accomplish.

This I believe

believe.jpgI came across the website for This I Believe today. It’s really an extensive website that offers essays by many different people who discuss one of their core beliefs. There is Spanish content, podcasts, and even audio recordings from the original 1950’s version of the text. Fabulous!

Gaming

I noticed that RealGames has partnered with Beliefnet to provide games that “stimulate the mind, challenge the spirit, and soothe the soul.” It’s heavy on the marketing language, but I did click over to play their memory game. The non-digital version (back in the old days) — was it called concentration??

Where do I look for research along the lines of games and building awareness, generating engagement, and building loyalty?

Big Flakes

Tonight on the way home, I saw some of the biggest snowflakes I’ve ever seen. And, it’s still snowing hard, as you can see in the photo below.

winter snow #99

You can also check out the other snowy night scene photo I took this evening in the flickr badge to the right…

Welcome…

…to all who have updated their links to my blog. Thank you!!

Really Listen

I’ve recently received The Age of Conversation: 100 voices 1 conversation. Each of the pieces in the text are similar to blog posts and take up just one page in the text. As I work my way through the text, I thought I’d post bits and pieces for you here (and in so doing, add my voice to the conversation).

Roger Anderson, of Modern Magellans leads off with “Keeping the Message Consistent.” In the piece, Anderson urges people to really listen to the conversation rather than just hearing what’s being said. It’s an active vs. passive distinction that he makes. Plus, he advises: make a message concise and clear; it’s easier to pass around.

Speaking of passing things around, here’s a graphic you might want to check out. Darren Barefoot created Robert Scoble’s Social Media Starfish as a graphic. It’s a great representation of the types of conversations to listen to. One category that I hadn’t thought of in terms of listening is the Events category (see: Upcoming, Eventful, or Zvents), but it makes sense.

If time and money were no consideration, I would consider attending these conferences.

Right beginnings

This weekend, I finished reading Mosaic: Pieces of my life so far by Amy Grant. If you have time, Mosaic is an inspirational read.

One take-away: Grant says she begins her day by going outside, whatever the weather, and says (out loud) “This is the day the Lord has made. Rejoice and be glad in it.” She says it multiple times with emphasis on different syllables as a way to wake up consciously and begin the day. I want to add to that: “What will I make of this day? This day is full of possibility.”

Morning is really my best time (that is, once I’m awake). I feel like each day is a new opportunity to start over. It has an energy to it and if I work it right, I can tap into it.

Last weekend, I read Monday Morning Choices. It’s a quick read. I read it over a couple sessions on the treadmill. The ideas were those that I’d encountered in other texts, but it’s nice to have them all in one place. It’s good information for someone who is beginning their career (or for someone who might have made some inappropriate ethical decisions (ala Enron)) and how important it is to have integrity and take personal responsibility. I might consider it for a graduation gift. It reminded me to check in every Monday morning to focus myself on the things that I’ve defined as important.

One of the other things that I’ve been doing to get my day started off right is to listen to the Morning Coach podcast. JB Glossinger does a live conference call during the week at 7:45 ET; however, I just don’t have the time to spare before I’m in the car, so I listen to the podcast. Usually the most recent episode is posted before I leave for work so I can just sync it and listen in the car; although, lately there has been a little delay (e.g. the one for today is not posted yet). I’m sure they’ll get the kinks worked out, so give it a try if you need a little something to start your day off right. I’m not really into the talks on the weekends, but I recommend the M-F talks by JB. Topics include Energy, Spirituality, and Abundance.

Other than a good strong cup of coffee or tea, how do you get your day off on the right track?

Mapping the year

I’ve been working on a plan for what I want to accomplish with the forums this year. The mind map created by the International Online Community Management Association has really helped me think about all of the issues I need to consider. Actually, the map could work for a number of similar efforts when you’ve got a project or initiative you want to get off the ground. Check it out.

Tag clouds and bills

Del.icio.us Tag Cloud for Allstate
Here’s an image that shows the tag cloud for Allstate at del.icio.us. It’s interesting to me that “bills” is one of the top tags. As a del.icio.us user myself, I hadn’t thought about creating one tag for all of the bills I pay each month and then using that page to click to each of the sites as I pay bills, but that is quite the productivity hack. Hmm…do I care if someone knows what companies I pay each month?

What is the top hit for “bills” at del.icio.us?
Billshare - a free application for people who need to split bills and keep a record of it. If I had a roommate and needed to track expenses, it might be the perfect app.

The #2 hit — billQ also looks like a cool web-based app to keep track of your bills. I really like the reminder feature that users can set-up to send to their cell phone or email.

Facebook

So I’m finally on Facebook. I feel like the last one to the party. What’s cool? What’s not? What do I need to know now? Where do I go for more info?